Frequently Asked Questions
In our opinion there is no such thing as a normal funeral. Each and every funeral is individual to the family concerned.
It is up to that family to pay their last respects and say their last farewell in the manner that is most suitable for them.
The following information is there to help answer questions that we are most often asked about:-
Q Can the family carry the coffin?
A Yes, although we would ask that you contact us as soon as possible to ensure that it is safe to do so.
Q Can we visit the deceased and pay our last respects?
A Yes, our Funeral Home is open and available to you at anytime.
If you wish to visit our private chapel, please ring and inform us when you would like to come and we will be pleased to arrange for a member of staff to meet you.
Q Can we have the deceased brought home?
A Yes, we can bring the deceased home either on the evening before the service or on the morning of the service, so the deceased can leave
from home.
Q Can we choose what music is played at the crematorium?
A Yes, if you have a special request or would like a particular piece of music playing either as you walk into or out of the Crematorium Chapel, please let the Funeral Director know as soon as possible. Please note that only original recordings are allowed, because of copyright laws.
Q Is each cremation carried out individually?
A Yes. The identity of the coffin name plate is checked by the Crematorium Attendant before it is placed in the Cremation Chamber. This only holds one coffin or casket at a time and again there are rules that must be abided by.
Q Do I get the cremated remains back that belong to me?
A Yes. Once the cremation has taken place, the cremated remains are removed and left to cool before being placed in an urn. This urn is clearly identified as to whose remains they are.
Q What can I do with the cremated remains?
A 1. You can place them in the Garden of Remembrance but you may not know where they are and you can not place a head stone with them.
2. You may wish to purchase a grave just for the purpose of interring the cremated remains. This allows you to have a headstone and have other members of the family buried there in the future.
3. You may keep them at home in a special urn or memorial.
4. You may scatter them in a special place.
5. The remains may be buried in an existing family grave.
For further help and advice contact: gary@haroldwhitefuneraldirectors.co.uk
